Be True To You

You are not alone. I know sometimes it feels that way because there aren't to many people in this world like you. You love to help others and genuinely care. Your passionate and loving ways can seem to intense and to much for some. Being traditional is rare because not many people see those as things to value. But I want to remind you as much as the world wants you to accept its ways its time for you to embrace who you are. To stand firm in what you want and what your heart desires. It's okay to be different and not fit in the mold that others create for you. Be you darling. Don't settle into something that the world can accept. You will only find restlessness and it won't ever be enough for you. You need a love that sets your heart on fire. One that is passionate and real. A loving relationship that supports the person you are working on becoming. An old school kindof love. Where titles actually mean something and both are seeking to grow together in something that could last forever. Dating a person whom you call your person. A person you see the potential to be by your side always. One that leads to marriage not heartbreak or disappointment. A secure place where you don't ever have to wonder or question where you stand with that person. Where there are no games or walls you have to climb or figure out. A relationship where both can be vulnerable and raw. To be able to have all the conversations on what they need to feel loved and supported. One that is bigger than the two of you. Where God is the focus. When that is in order everything else falls into place. Someone that is openminded and strong enough for a blended family. Many times blending can be complicated but when the focus is a happy healthy environment for the children that's all that really matters. Egos are put to the side and people do what needs to be done for the children to feel supported. You need a person that can be your best friend. One you can laugh with about the chaos of the day and confide in. A lover. Not just someone to be intimate with, but one you truly love. Where eyes are loving eyes, hands are gentle, passionate kisses, and embraces that you want to never end. Yes darling you need more than most, but that is because you give more than most too. You were not made for casual or giving half of yourself to something. You were made for something real because you are real. You are not numb to your feelings and the world has not corrupted your views on relationships. So it's time to be you. And that might mean your approach on dating will change. Your focus will be more on who they are now and where the want to go. Finding someone one that same path and has the same core beliefs. I think dating can only be hard when we aren't honest with ourselves on the purpose of why we are dating. If you dating to make friends then don't date just make friends. If you want something casual then don't try to date someone that is clear that are wanting more. Some might not understand, support, or want to get to know you because you won't date how they want to and that is a blessing in disguise. Because your actions and words should filter out the people that try to get close to you. Your beliefs and views will protect you from being in something that doesn't align with where you are going. Remember you being different is what makes you rare. You wanting more means you will give more to someone than they have ever experienced. We have one life. Live one that you will be proud of. One that you wake up excited to live everyday. That will bring peace to your soul. A life that makes your heart beat intensely with love and admiration. And when the day is done and its time to rest, you smile and thank the lord for the life you have.